Why?

Why?

So ive been with this gril for just over three months, and it couldnt have been going better, but tonight she rings and says she cant handle a relationship and wants to end it??

I can understand this cos only about a year ago she came outta along term one, likewise did I about 18 mths ago, but for the first time since, i really have let my guard slip and fall for her big time, then this happens and makes me wonder is it really worth it??

Sorry for the sob story, but has anyone else been in this situation? And if so, how did you deal with it or what would you reccommend cos i really cant get her outta my head

not very constrctive mate but snakes with tits...best thing for you would be to get yourself a dirty 16 year old and concentrate on shagging for a while...

bendiness makes everything better...

and never drop your guard in a hurry again or you,ll kick yourself again

advise from a though so take it with a pinch of salt

yes it is Cos if you never loved anyone, what would you end up as when youre an old man?? You get plenty of duds before you find someone right.

Hope ya ok Paul She might just need some time and space

Gutter Has happened to me a couple of times before, but you can't change other people's feelings, plus you'll get over it, and you need things like this that make you sad so you know what it feels like to be happy again

Chin up mate, hope things get better soon

Breaking up with someone is always horrible whether it's been few months or few years.

Same thing happened to one of my best mates last weekend.

He's was with her for 6 months and was so patient and understanding with her and she threw it all back in his face.

Guide to get over it:

Your friends

Keep busy and keep smiling and maybe a few :beer:

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I had exactly this a few years ago. Planning a holiday abroad on the Wednesday night, rang her Thursday & got no answer, same of Friday, finally got through on the Saturday & was told much the same as you were. What made it worse is she came round the Sunday after to talk, got some bullshit story about what she'd been through in the past, anyway we agreed to try again but never heard from her. Cut my losses & moved on! Easier said than done but it's true.

If I hadn't done that & dwelled on it, I wouldn't be with Dee now, 2 and a bit years it is now...

Still deserve a medal (or possibly a Knighthood or the World Cup...) for putting up with her @ times though!

when the grass is cut the snakes appear! bad luck fella

What she said. You were always the one telling me to keep my chin up about this sorta stuff and, to be honest, I didnt believe ya for a minute. I was proved wrong tho. One day, that'll happen to you too. Just keep the faith.

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Its the oldest line in the book that 1. Just take comfort in the fact that not all girls will spin you a line like that and try to move on. Have plenty nights out with your mates, have a lot of:beer:
you'll meet someone else who is right for you eventually but thats not to say you can't have a lot of fun with some that aren't in the meantime

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww how cute and lovely is that!!???!!?!?!?!?!?!??!


paul - hope you feel better soon

i always like to let my fate decide what happens

When ever something bad happens and I fell like crap, I always just think that everything happens for a reason, and something better is bound to come along in the future sometime

Bad Crack mate

Women are fucked up

Erm, watch it young lad :tut: Men are just as bad, if not worse

Woman are worse. FACT!

My dads bigger than your dad :tounge:

ooo! Barny!!!

Re: Why?

its a shitter when theat happens aint it!!

But my Dad's got a gun!

My dad probably has

Girls are much worse than lads, im totally with miller on this one!!!

try not to let it get you down mate, i went through it recently too its not nice but good friends can get you through anything!!!!

well.... good friends and random girls, it often takes a combination of the two